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Hi there,

I know we don't know each other but I couldn't help replying here - hope you don't mind me getting deep and meaningful with a stranger.

From personal experience I know how difficult it is to keep your chin up when you have news like this hanging over your head. The word cancer has a stigma that instills fear into anyone, but times have changed and even if you do hear the worst (I sure hope you don't), there are still positives that can be taken from it.

First off all, success rates for treatment are SO much better than ever before. I had cancer (down below) back in 2004. I had an operation which we all thought was successful until a few months later when it spread into my abdomen. I was so shocked when they told me that I almost threw up and feinted right there. I had to have chemo, and it was a horrible experience, But...

Arko is right - When it was all over it gave me a whole new perspective on life and made me the person I am today. If it wasn't for that experience I would probably still be in an unhappy job, and living meaninglessly from one day to the next. I would certainly not be as happy as I am now because it gave me the drive to get more out of life.

I'm not trying to tell you my life story, just that even if you don't get the news you hope for, that doesn't mean you can't enjoy life. Whether I have 1 year or 50 years left I know that I when I go, I will have given my all to achieve my goals and get as much out of life as possible.

I really wish the best for you as I'm sure everyone here does.

Chin up and be positive!

Ucase Ltd;87523 wrote:Hi there,

I will have given my all to achieve my goals and get as much out of life as possible.

Exactly!.....

thanks guys....

i didnt know arko....jeez

i am hoping it just my meds are to high thats causing this.....my throat/glands at left side as i type this feels really swollen, same with back of my tongue..
cant see anything visually...no swelling on the outside at all

seems to be with me that nearly ever time i want to go forward in business, some bloody thing pops up and gets in the way.....was gonna open web site a yr ago and start selling the blank sub phone cases....1 month away from opening, my mother passed away in her sleep....that canned that...still not got over it tbh...

just opened another new website last month selling the personalised cases.....got new 3D machines and a shed load of 3d cases and other new cases coming in tomorrow...now i got this with the throat....i am beginning to think some bugger is trying to tell me something...i really am ;-( ..i aint got time to be sodding ill....not now :rolleyes:

seems to be with me that nearly ever time i want to go forward in business, some bloody thing pops up and gets in the way.....was gonna

bigj2552, I usually read these sorts of things and move on, because the sentence above applies pretty well to my life. I had a series of health disasters that caused me to lose my businesses, my homes and most of the things I loved in life.
Just when I thought it couldn't get worse, I had open heart surgery and brain treatment in the same month and have been trying to recover from that. In fact those last are the reason I found this forum in the first place.
It is amazing what our bodies can crawl back from. I've seen some of your posts on this site. You have friends and support on here. Good luck. Fingers crossed that it all comes out well

fantastic news - over the "bleep" moon ..i cant swear on here :biggrin:

specialist guy say he looked at my scans and said it is not cancerous...WOOOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOO....thats the polite way of saying what im saying here

apparently the cancer lumps have different shape and fill to them... he want to keep eye on it and ordered scans every 6 months anyway - and my blood work is clear as well

so sorry guys to post all the sad news.....but i dont get out much....lol....

MANY THANKS TO ALL YOU SAID IT BE OK .....THANKS GUYS...GROUP HUG IS IN ORDER

now i,m gonna do what i said i was gonna do.....attack life twice as sodding hard...

Thats fantastic news mate! Seeeee.... nowt to worry about was there!?.... Wait for all the "I told you" so's..... hahahahahahaha Good news!.

Man up John!

Group hug with the girls! is OK!

Group Beer drinking is OK with the blokes!

So now go out and live life to the fecking full!

Congrats and best wishes!

GREAT NEWS!!

Really chuffed for you!

thanks guys.......BIG weight off my mind.......you always think the worst ......