Thanks for all the comments.
I started this thread because i wanted to try to establish a 'rule' - so that me and my team could be consistent, and have a solid argument for what we would or wouldn't do.
There are extremes in all walks of life! If we get a hen do job in, - and they ask about printing cheeky nick names on the backs, - I often hide a silent smirk.....yet on the vast majority of occasions the nature of the nic names is very mild, - but on the odd occasion, they can be...... Oh! so crude

I am sure we have all come across some of these!
As an aside, - the initial 'Hen do' inquire sometimes comes from a work email, - and I point out that the actual order should maybe not come from the work email just in case the company has a policy on 'anything that might bring the company into disrepute' - if the list of cheeky names is attached!
SO - as you can see, I am open minded, and yet sensitive....
Back in the days of running photo-labs, we printed anything that was not governed by the obscene publications act. WE were happy to print drug parties, and even advertised specifically when Boots or similar were reported in the press for 'busting' some students who had a suspicious looking cigarette!
T-shirts are the same but different.
With photos, you only facilitate someone else's creativity, but with a T there is an additional component put in by the T printer; we are sort of co-creators, and hence my feeling of responsibility.
The extreme left have recently bullied many pro-Thatcher supporters on FB/Twitter etc, and no-one wants bad publicity from anyone, let alone a vocal extreme group of any persuasion. ( I am Thatcher neutral btw)
T's have historically been used for statements, and the recent (commercial) trend of the "Slogo" (statement logo) t-shirt have renewed the medium to all our favour.
Anyhow.
Back to the original post.
can anyone suggest a 'rule' that I (or anyone) can apply to govern what we might print. This is a ethic/moral question here, one that applies when the boss is on holiday, and is solid enough to be used to both say 'No' and be fare, or as justification for a 'Yes' to a crowd that might not be happy with your printing decision.
It is complicated!
I don't like the 'they paid so .....'
Or 'It is none of my business so ....'
keep it coming!
Phil